In this book, Morule Boitumelo wants LADIES to believe in themselves, she wants them to stop having a low esteem. They need to remember that all things happen for a reason no matter how bad it is. They must not waste their time in bitterness, hurt, blaming, angry and resentful because they are wasting the energy to see the good in the midst of the bad. They must take every unfortunate situation to learn from it and grow to become better. Things that ladies are facing today (death, finances, divorce, unemployment, failure, retrenchment etc.) has the ability to reveal the character of the people around you. There is nothing as painful as thinking you are having people covering your back, and only to find they are the ones stabbing you at the back. Ladies must not take advice from a person who has not walked the path but knows the path. Out of such a man or a woman comes with the spirit of doubt and fear which seek to cover you like a gown of mourners. Always appreciate every challenging you face because it comes with benefits rapped/disguised in pain or problem.